Yes, thats what I've been learning a lot. About human and how imperfect they are. I can pretty much stand any ugly characteristics such as laziness, or impatience, or greed, or inefficiency, or similar things like that but for sure I can never live with dishonest.
Human have sins. All my friends have flaws. I need to learn how to deal with them. But this friend of mine whom I just met a year ago lied to me about her life, her exes that she dated and made it seem like they were all bastards, when in fact she was the one that cheated on them and lied to them about her past. There is this one thing, but I should not say it out loud, just cos its little private for her. But its unbelievable that she even lied about it, so everyone can look at her like an innocent girl.
I actually realized we did not get along and stopped hanging out with her. Now more of the truth is being revealed... I guess its time I ended things.
I sound kinda mean, but I really dont believe much in changing people...
Now I know why my sister was right. Eventually the friends back in those days of junior high or high school will be the one will understand, love and be honest to us no matter what happens, or whoever we have become.
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Hang,
I am reading your post and I completely understand your frustrations... I used to believe that you could change people, but I think you are right - it is impossible to change those who do not want to change, even though doing so is in their best interest. And as for honesty, that's pretty much the only thing I need in order to get along with a person - he or she has to be honest, even if that means hurting me or telling me something I don't want to hear. But I guess it's good that you found out about your friend sooner than later. Still disappointing though.
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